The job of the submitHandler is to submit the form, not to register a form submit event handler.
The submitHandler is called when the formm submit event is triggered, in your case instead of submitting the form you were registering a submit handler so when the form submit event is triggered for the first time the form is not submitted. when it is fired for the second time first the submit event is processed by the validator then the handler you registered is fired which triggers the ajax request.
In the submitHandler you just have to sent the ajax request there is no need to register the event handler
$("#add-form").validate({
submitHandler: function (form) {
// setup some local variables
var $form = $(form);
// let's select and cache all the fields
var $inputs = $form.find("input, select, button, textarea");
// serialize the data in the form
var serializedData = $form.serialize();
// let's disable the inputs for the duration of the ajax request
$inputs.prop("disabled", true);
// fire off the request to /form.php
request = $.ajax({
url: "forms.php",
type: "post",
data: serializedData
});
// callback handler that will be called on success
request.done(function (response, textStatus, jqXHR) {
// log a message to the console
console.log("Hooray, it worked!");
alert("success awesome");
$('#add--response').html('<div class="alert alert-success"><button type="button" class="close" data-dismiss="alert">×</button><strong>Well done!</strong> You successfully read this important alert message.</div>');
});
// callback handler that will be called on failure
request.fail(function (jqXHR, textStatus, errorThrown) {
// log the error to the console
console.error(
"The following error occured: " + textStatus, errorThrown);
});
// callback handler that will be called regardless
// if the request failed or succeeded
request.always(function () {
// reenable the inputs
$inputs.prop("disabled", false);
});
}
});