I'm using following markup and had encoutered the same problem:
<ul class="nav">
<li><a href="abc.html">abc</a></li>
<li><a href="def.html">def</a></li>
</ul>
Here I have used the following logic:
$(".nav > li").click(function(e){
if(e.target != this) return; // only continue if the target itself has been clicked
// this section only processes if the .nav > li itself is clicked.
alert("you clicked .nav > li, but not it's children");
});
In terms of the exact question, I can see that working as follows:
$(".example").click(function(e){
if(e.target != this) return; // only continue if the target itself has been clicked
$(".example").fadeOut("fast");
});
or of course the other way around:
$(".example").click(function(e){
if(e.target == this){ // only if the target itself has been clicked
$(".example").fadeOut("fast");
}
});