You need to update your project files:
The Silverlight project file contains a parameter indicating a server project:
<LinkedServerProject>..\SLClient.Web\SLClient.Web.csproj</LinkedServerProject>
The Web application project file contains a list of the Silverlight application projects:
<SilverlightApplicationList>{97E56891-B97D-4588-8262-BFB7DC5FD6D2}|..\SLClient\SLClient.csproj|ClientBin|False</SilverlightApplicationList>
This value tells MSBuild to copy the XAP in the clientBin directory.
Take note of the supplied GUID. It can be obtained from the Silverlight app csproj file:
<ProjectGuid>{97E56891-B97D-4588-8262-BFB7DC5FD6D2}</ProjectGuid>
You can open the project files in Visual Studio by first unloading the project in the context menu.