the :checked
pseudo-class initially applies to such elements that have the HTML4 selected
and checked
attributes
Source: w3.org
So, this CSS works, although styling the color
is not possible in every browser:
option:checked { color: red; }
An example of this in action, hiding the currently selected item from the drop down list.
option:checked { display:none; }
<select>
<option>A</option>
<option>B</option>
<option>C</option>
</select>
To style the currently selected option in the closed dropdown as well, you could try reversing the logic:
select { color: red; }
option:not(:checked) { color: black; } /* or whatever your default style is */