I realize this is stale for a while and an answer had been selected, but how about the alternative to allow the foreign key to be NULL and then choose ON DELETE SET NULL.
Basically, your table should be changed like so:
ALTER TABLE 'bericht'
DROP FOREIGN KEY 'your_foreign_key';
ALTER TABLE 'bericht'
ADD CONSTRAINT 'your_foreign_key' FOREIGN KEY ('column_foreign_key') REFERENCES 'other_table' ('column_parent_key') ON UPDATE CASCADE ON DELETE SET NULL;
Personally I would recommend using both "ON UPDATE CASCADE" as well as "ON DELETE SET NULL" to avoid unnecessary complications, however your set up may dictate a different approach.
Hope this helps.