Well I have found solution. ListView (what is inside of the spinners dialog) will check if your View is Checkable and call setChecked. Since android.R.layout.simple_spinner_dropdown_item is checkable it works.
So for my custom List item i have created LinearLayout that implements Checkable
public class CheckableLinearLayout extends LinearLayout implements Checkable
{
private boolean _isChecked = false;
public CheckableLinearLayout(Context context)
{
super(context);
}
public CheckableLinearLayout(Context context, AttributeSet attrs)
{
super(context, attrs);
}
@Override
public void setChecked(boolean checked)
{
_isChecked = checked;
for (int i = 0; i < getChildCount(); i++)
{
View child = getChildAt(i);
if (child instanceof Checkable)
{
((Checkable) child).setChecked(_isChecked);
}
}
}
@Override
public boolean isChecked()
{
return _isChecked;
}
@Override
public void toggle()
{
_isChecked = !_isChecked;
}
}
So ListView calls setChecked and I propagate that down to children views and my CheckBox / RadioButton will get checked / unchecked correctly.