An approach that can be used for signature only (in addition to detect __ or --) is to test if the first name and/or family name of the sender is on a short line (~ containing 3 to 4 words, max).
The sender name is on the raw email header, most of the time next to the email address, like in:
From: John Doe <jdoe@provider.com>
This would be based on the assumption that you rarely write your own name in a email, and if you do so, it is probably in a long sentence.
Of course there will be some false positive, but it may not be a big problem depending on what you do (we use it to fold quoted text and signature into a ... gmail-style button, so overdetection does not end up into losing any content, it is just misplaced).