you could use this function found in this link
public static DataGridCell GetCell(this DataGrid grid, DataGridRow row, int column)
{
if (row != null)
{
DataGridCellsPresenter presenter = GetVisualChild<DataGridCellsPresenter>(row);
if (presenter == null)
{
grid.ScrollIntoView(row, grid.Columns[column]);
presenter = GetVisualChild<DataGridCellsPresenter>(row);
}
DataGridCell cell = (DataGridCell)presenter.ItemContainerGenerator.ContainerFromIndex(column);
return cell;
}
return null;
}
and call it from your event handler :
object cellvalue = DataGridCell(yourgrid, e.Row, e.Column.DisplayIndex).GetValue;
this function is also called within the GetCell()
function
public static T GetVisualChild<T>(Visual parent) where T : Visual
{
T child = default(T);
int numVisuals = VisualTreeHelper.GetChildrenCount(parent);
for (int i = 0; i < numVisuals; i++)
{
Visual v = (Visual)VisualTreeHelper.GetChild(parent, i);
child = v as T;
if (child == null)
{
child = GetVisualChild<T>(v);
}
if (child != null)
{
break;
}
}
return child;
}