There isn't a way to do precisely what you're looking for. But the following may work for you.
In a comment on a now deleted answer you stated that your goal is to replace the to-be-deleted file with a template for that file. If that template file is created by the same commit in which the old file is removed, and the files are similar enough git would see detect that as a rename (this is actually what git mv
does).
When other developers then attempt to merge that change into their repository, their copy would be renamed rather than deleted. If, as is likely, they had local changes to the file that would prevent that commit from being merged. At that point they could simply copy their version of the file to a temporary name and use git checkout HEAD <thefile>
to discard their changes to the original. This would allow the merge to proceed, including the rename. After that they could move the temporary copy back to the original name.
This does require some work in each non-bare copy of that repository, but in no case should it result in work being deleted.