I think this is what you're after:
LockSetForegroundWindow
http://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/windows/desktop/ms633532(v=vs.85).aspx
Remarks
The system automatically enables calls to SetForegroundWindow if the user presses the ALT key or takes some action that causes the system itself to change the foreground window (for example, clicking a background window).
This function is provided so applications can prevent other applications from making a foreground change that can interrupt its interaction with the user.
Just don't forget to unlock :)
Edit:
Try SetWinEventHook as described here:
Is there Windows system event on active window changed?
Then when the unwanted window comes to the front you can send it to the background.