Timestamps in MySQL generally used to track changes to records, and are often updated every time the record is changed. If you want to store a specific value you should use a datetime field.
If you meant that you want to decide between using a UNIX timestamp or a native MySQL datetime field, go with the native format. You can do calculations within MySQL that way ("SELECT DATE_ADD(my_datetime, INTERVAL 1 DAY)") and it is simple to change the format of the value to a UNIX timestamp ("SELECT UNIX_TIMESTAMP(my_datetime)") when you query the record if you want to operate on it with PHP.
An important difference is that DATETIME represents a date (as found in a calendar) and a time (as can be observed on a wall clock), while TIMESTAMP represents a well defined point in time. This could be very important if your application handles time zones. How long ago was '2010-09-01 16:31:00'? It depends on what timezone you're in. For me it was just a few seconds ago, for you it may represent a time in the future. If I say 1283351460 seconds since '1970-01-01 00:00:00 UTC', you know exactly what point in time I talk about.
For difference use:
$timeFirst = strtotime($postDateTime);
$timeSecond = strtotime($commentDateTime);
$differenceInSeconds = $timeSecond - $timeFirst;
For displaying the time use this:
function relativedate($secs) {
$second = 1;
$minute = 60;
$hour = 60*60;
$day = 60*60*24;
$week = 60*60*24*7;
$month = 60*60*24*7*30;
$year = 60*60*24*7*30*365;
if ($secs <= 0) { $output = "now";
}elseif ($secs > $second && $secs < $minute) { $output = round($secs/$second)." second";
}elseif ($secs >= $minute && $secs < $hour) { $output = round($secs/$minute)." minute";
}elseif ($secs >= $hour && $secs < $day) { $output = round($secs/$hour)." hour";
}elseif ($secs >= $day && $secs < $week) { $output = round($secs/$day)." day";
}elseif ($secs >= $week && $secs < $month) { $output = round($secs/$week)." week";
}elseif ($secs >= $month && $secs < $year) { $output = round($secs/$month)." month";
}elseif ($secs >= $year && $secs < $year*10) { $output = round($secs/$year)." year";
}else{ $output = " more than a decade ago"; }
if ($output <> "now"){
$output = (substr($output,0,2)<>"1 ") ? $output."s" : $output;
}
return $output;
}
echo relativedate(60); // 1 minute
It will display exactly like on face. You have to pass the diff between comment and post in seconds to the function.