I had the same problem and found a very different solution, perhaps because I don't believe any of the previous answers / comments. With 10 million lines of code (that's more code than is in an F16 fighter jet), if you have a 100 characters per line (a crazy size), you could load the whole code base into 1GB of memory. Simple math. Why would 8GB of memory fail?
Answer: Because the community Sonar C++ scanner seems to have a bug where it picks up ANY file with the letter 'c' in it's extension. That includes .doc, .docx, .ipch, etc. Hence, the reason it's running out of memory is because it's trying to read some file that it thinks is 300mb of pure code but really it should be ignored.
Solution: Find the extensions used by all of the files in your project (see here).
Then add these other extensions as exclusions in your sonar.properties file:
sonar.exclusions=**/*.doc,**/*.docx,**/*.ipch
Then set your memory limits back to regular amounts:
%JAVA_EXEC% -Xmx1024m -XX:MaxPermSize=512m -XX:ReservedCodeCacheSize=128m %SONAR_RUNNER_OPTS% ...