There is nothing wrong in asking basic questions... Actually, this type of pattern is not peculiar of Android, but happens whenever you have some framework in the middle. Some basic examples are java Applets and Servlets.
When you launch a Java app, you start a JVM and then you need to load something into it: so you need a static method (the main) because there are no objects (yet) living in the JVM that you can refer to.
If you have some sort of framework in the middle, it is the framework that will start the JVM and will start populating it with its own service objects: writing your code then means writing your own objects (which will be subclasses of given "template"). Your objects can then be injected (loaded) by the framework. The framework service objects manage the lifecycle of the injected objects by calling the lifecycle methods defined in the "template" superclass.
So for instance when you provide an applet to a browser, you do not launch a static main method: you rather only provide a subclass of java.applet.Applet that implements some instance methods which act as callback to manage the lifecycle (init, paint, stop...). It is the browser that will launch the JVM, instantiate what's needed for the launching an applet, load your applet and call it.
Similarly, with servlets you subclass the javax.servlet.http.HttpServlet class and implement some instance (non static) methods (doGet, doPost...). The Web container (e.g. Tomcat) will be in charge to launch the JVM, instantiate what's needed for launching a servlet, load your servlet and call it.
The pattern in Android is pretty much the same: what do you do is to create a subclass of android.app.Activity. When you launch an app, the system looks in the manifest to find out which activity should be started, then the "framework" loads it and calls its instance methods (onCreate, onPause, onResume...).