This code doesn't even attempt to address threading or concurrency issues, much like Rails proper. If you need that feature, take heed!
Basically, the idea is to keep a count at what level of recursive calls of "save" you are, and only allow after_save when you are exiting the topmost level. You'll want to add in exception handling, too.
def before_save
@attempted_save_level ||= 0
@attempted_save_level += 1
end
def after_save
if (@attempted_save_level == 1)
#fill in logic here
save #fires before_save, incrementing save_level to 2, then after_save, which returns without taking action
#fill in logic here
end
@attempted_save_level -= 1 # reset the "prevent infinite recursion" flag
end