So this question is very old but has no accepted answer. I dont think Visionstar understood the issue OP is having.
My understanding is that you have an application running, and you would like to add an option in the WINDOWS EXPLORER's right-click menu. Not in your own application's context menu.
I do not think you can achieve this within your own application, however, what you can do is add an item in the Windows explorer's context menu (nothing to do with your application, you can just do that in windows; see link below) that you can setup to call a little script you would make (literally a little batch file... but could be a .net app too). That little script can take care of warning you main application. By creating a text file, or json file in a hot folder, or some other mechanism you would have to come up with.
Adding an item in the windows' contextual menu:
How add context menu item to Windows Explorer for folders
If you need to deploy this to other PCs, you can make a add_menu.reg file to make it simpler. I'll let you Google that one, but I think it's as simpe as a right-click -> export key in your regedit.