You are going to have to profile your server and see where the time is spent. I really like YourKit for doing thread profile. visualvm which comes with the JDK can help also.
There are all sorts of reasons your web service can be slow:
- Latency from client to server
- Handling the HTTP request on the server
- Handling the HTTP response on the client
- Making the database call (sounds like you already have some kind of locking / blocking going on there)
You are going to have to get markers to tell you how long it took to go from A to B to C to D back to C back to B back to A kind of thing. We would be speculating heavily from here on what is exactly going on in your program, but we can give you the ideas / tools to figure it out.
If you use YourKit, connect it to your server process. Have nothing else connecting to your server (for instance your client is not sending requests). Try it with your client requesting, you should see your accepting threads receive the HTTP request and then delegate to either your processing thread or do the processing itself. You can use YourKit to see how much time is spent in different functions during that call time.
Try it with your client making the call.
Try it using a simple HTTP request tool like wget or maybe your IDE has a webservice test tool (for instance intellij does), or you can download a simple HTTP test tool.
By testing it in a simple tool that just outputs the response, you can eliminate any client processing issues. You can also achieve a similar test in Chrome or Firefox and use the developer tools to see time to fulfill request.
In my experience, the framework for handling the requests and delegating can introduce some performance issues. I ripped Grails out of a production environment because of its performance issues (before any Grails / Groovy flames come my way, we were operating at a much higher rate than typical web applications, and I am sure Grails has made some headway in the last couple years... alas, it was not for my need at that time)
BTW, I doubt you are operating a load where you will be critiquing the web service framework you chose to use. I have been happy with Spring MVC and DropWizard (Jersey JAX-RS), and Grails is easy to use too.
You should make a simple static content response in your webservice and see how quickly that returns vs a request that makes a database call.
Also, what kind of table are you using in MySQL? InnoDB? MyISAM? They have different locking schemes. That could be causing your MySQL issue.
The key to all of it, break the problem up into parts, and measure each and eliminate parts one by one till you go, everytime I do X it is slower (like everytime I make a database call its slower)