There is no straight anwser to your question, or there is at least some misunderstanding.
Even if it's not really impossible, you try to use a tool for another goal that why it was designed.
Maven : build tool
As per doc, maven a build and "project comprehension tool", aimed toleverage the management of softwares. In a few words : it's related to Build phase (development).
So, maven-dbunit-plugin provided features to help you during test / dev of your program : batch, webapp, .... or wathever you want.
Loading data
You are (or you seem) looking for a library that read data from an xml file, during Run Phase (production) and load them into a database.
There hopefully is a lot of way to achieve that, depending on your needs : do you have to make some operation on data before ? Which database are you using.
Here a few list of ideas :
Import Data into MySQL
http://www.mssqltips.com/sqlservertip/2899/importing-and-processing-data-from-xml-files-into-sql-server-tables/
INSERT INTO XMLwithOpenXML(XMLData, LoadedDateTime)
SELECT CONVERT(XML, BulkColumn) AS BulkColumn, GETDATE()
FROM OPENROWSET(BULK 'D:\OpenXMLTesting.xml', SINGLE_BLOB) AS x;
Import Data into SQL Server
Import XML file into SQL Server without BULK
SELECT *
FROM OPENROWSET('MSDASQL',
'Driver={Microsoft Text Driver (*.xml)};DefaultDir=C:\Radu\test.xml;',
'SELECT * FROM [test.xml];' )
As a last solution, you may use dbunit, as a dependency, and call internal method, but once again, this is not the main usage of this library.