I am looking for this now quite a while, but did not get good enough answers.
The jquery validation engine is flawed imho. Using the class attribute to place validation rules seems backwards.
I want something super lightweight that:
Displays a small error message as well stops the user from submitting the form.
The error that the user does is the following. He tabs into the date field, then enters manually a wrong format, then submits the form.
Code:
<input id="first" type="text" value="" />
<input id="hello" type="text" value="234.12.1984" />
$("#hello").datepicker();
$("#first").focus();