For anyone finding the way of using HeaderTemplate / ContentTemplate with CollectionContainer:
First Add Type Property in ViewModel
public Type Type { get { return this.GetType(); } }
Use Style.Triggers to set HeaderTemplate / ContentTemplate for the dynamic tabs identified by the Type property
<Window x:Class="TabDemo.MainWindow"
xmlns="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml/presentation"
xmlns:x="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml"
xmlns:d="http://schemas.microsoft.com/expression/blend/2008"
xmlns:mc="http://schemas.openxmlformats.org/markup-compatibility/2006"
xmlns:local="clr-namespace:TabDemo"
xmlns:vm="clr-namespace:TabDemo.ViewModel"
mc:Ignorable="d"
Title="MainWindow" Height="350" Width="525"
d:DataContext="{d:DesignInstance vm:TabViewModel}">
<Window.Resources>
<CollectionViewSource x:Key="ExistingTabs" Source="{Binding ExistingTabs}"/>
<DataTemplate x:Key="TemplateForTheHeader" DataType="{x:Type vm:TabViewModel}">
<TextBlock Text="{Binding Title}"/>
</DataTemplate>
<DataTemplate x:Key="TemplateForTheContent" DataType="{x:Type vm:TabViewModel}">
<DockPanel>
<DataGrid ItemsSource="{Binding Data}"></DataGrid>
</DockPanel>
</DataTemplate>
<Style x:Key="TabItemStyle" TargetType="TabItem">
<Style.Triggers>
<DataTrigger Binding="{Binding Path=Type}" Value="{x:Type vm:TabViewModel}">
<Setter Property="HeaderTemplate" Value="{StaticResource TemplateForTheHeader}" />
<Setter Property="ContentTemplate" Value="{StaticResource TemplateForTheContent}" />
</DataTrigger>
</Style.Triggers>
</Style>
</Window.Resources>
<Grid>
<TabControl Grid.Row="1" ItemContainerStyle="{StaticResource TabItemStyle}">
<TabControl.ItemsSource>
<CompositeCollection>
<TabItem Header="Fixed Header">
<TabItem.Content>
<TextBlock Text="Fixed Content"/>
</TabItem.Content>
</TabItem>
<CollectionContainer Collection="{Binding Source={StaticResource ExistingTabs}}"/>
</CompositeCollection>
</TabControl.ItemsSource>
</TabControl>
</Grid>
</Window>
Referencing Anderson Imes's answer: https://stackoverflow.com/a/1348369/1196637