<!DOCTYPE HTML PUBLIC "-//W3C//DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional//EN">
<html><head>
<style type="text/css"><!--
.class1 A:link {text-decoration: none; background:#1C1C1C url(..../images/menu-bg.jpg) center top no-repeat; border-left: 4px solid #333333; border-right: 4px solid #333333; border-top: 3px solid #333333; border-bottom: 4px solid #333333;}
.class1 A:visited {text-decoration: none; background:#1C1C1C url(..../images/menu-bg.jpg) center top no-repeat; border-left: 4px solid #333333; border-right: 4px solid #333333; border-top: 3px solid #333333; border-bottom: 4px solid #333333;}
.class1 A:hover {text-decoration: none; background:#1C1C1C url(..../images/menu-bg.jpg) center top no-repeat; border-left: 3px solid #0000FF; border-right: 3px solid #0000FF; border-top: 2px solid #0000FF; border-bottom: 2px solid #0000FF;}
.class1 A:active {text-decoration: none; background:#1C1C1C url(..../images/menu-bg.jpg) center top no-repeat; border-left: 3px solid #0000FF; border-right: 3px solid #0000FF; border-top: 2px solid #0000FF; border-bottom: 2px solid #0000FF;}
#nav_menu .current {text-decoration: none; background:#1C1C1C url(..../images/menu-bg.jpg) center top no-repeat; border-left: 3px solid #FF0000; border-right: 3px solid #FF0000; border-top: 2px solid #FF0000; border-bottom: 2px solid #FF0000;}
a:link {text-decoration:none;}
a:visited {text-decoration:none;}
a:hover {text-decoration:none;}
a:active {text-decoration:none;}
--></style>
</head>
<body style="background:#000000 url('...../images/bg.jpg') repeat-y top center fixed; width="100%" align="center">
<table style="table-layout:fixed; border:0px" width=100% height=100% border=0 cellspacing=0 cellpadding=0 align=center><tr>
<td style="background: url(...../images/menu_bg-menu.jpg) center no-repeat;" "border:0px" width="100%" height="100%" align="center" valign="middle">
<span class="class1" id="nav_menu">
<a href="http://Yourhomepage-url.com/" ***class="current"*** target="_parent"><font face="Georgia" color="#0000FF" size="2"><b> Home </b></font></a>
<a href="http://Yourhomepage-url.com/yourfaqspage-url.php_or_.html" target="_parent"><font face="Georgia" color="#0000FF" size="2"><b> FAQs page </b></font></a>
<a href="http://Yourhomepage-url.com/youraboutpage-url.php_or_.html" target="_parent"><font face="Georgia" color="#0000FF" size="2"><b> About </b></font></a>
<a href="http://Yourhomepage-url.com/yourcontactpage-url.php_or_.html" target="_parent"><font face="Georgia" color="#0000FF" size="2"><b> Contact </b></font></a>
</span>
</td></tr></table></body></html>
Note: the style goes in between the head tag (<head> .... </head>
) and the class="class1" and the id="nav_menu" goes in the ie: (-- <span class="class1" id="nav_menu">
--).
Then the last class attribute (class="current") goes in the hyper-link code of the link in the page that you want the active current link to correspond to.
Example: You want the link tab to stay active or highlighted when it's correspondent page is whats currently in view, go to that page itself and place the class="current" attribute by it's link's html code. Only in the page that corresponds to the link so that when ever that page is at view, the tab will stay highlighted or stand out different from the rest of the tabs.
For the Home page, go to the home page and place the class in it. example: <a href="http://Yourhomepage-url.com/" class="current" target="_parent">
For the About page, go to the about page and place the class in it. example: <a href="http://Yourhomepage-url.com/youraboutpage-url.php_or_.html" class="current" target="_parent">
For the Contact page, go to the contact page and place the class in it. example: <a href="http://Yourhomepage-url.com/youraboutpage-url.php_or_.html" class="current" target="_parent">
etc ......
Notice the example Table above;- Lets assume this was the Home page, so on this page, only the Home url link section has the class="current"
Sorry for any meaning-less error, am not a prof. but this worked for me and displays fine in almost all the browsers tested, including ipad, and smart phones. Hope this will help some-one out here because is very frustrating to want to and not able to. I had tried so had to get to this, and so far it's good for me.