It is not quite clear what you want, but I think what you will need is something to read an XML document (as a file or directly as a string), an XML parser.
There is a whole list (and many more) of different XML parsers you can use for this:
I would recommend dom4j for its easy usage. Here is an example for a dom4j implemenation:
String xmlPath = "myXmlDocument.xml";
SAXReader reader = new SAXReader();
Document document = reader.read(xmlPath);
Element rootElement = document.getRootElement();
System.out.println("Root Element: "+rootElement.getName());
You can directly feed in a String to be parsed to an XML document too:
String xmlString = "<name>Hello</name>";
SAXReader reader = new SAXReader();
Document document = DocumentHelper.parseText(xmlString);
Element rootElement = document.getRootElement();
System.out.println("Root Element: "+rootElement.getName());
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