To add a reference in Visual Basic
In Solution Explorer, double-click the My Project node for the project.
In the Project Designer, click the References tab.
Click the Add button to open the Add Reference dialog box.
In the Add Reference dialog box, select the tab indicating the type of component you want to reference.
Select the components you want to reference, and then click OK.
To add a reference in Visual C#
In Solution Explorer, right-click the project node and click Add Reference.
In the Add Reference dialog box, select the tab indicating the type of component you want to reference.
Select the components you want to reference, and then click OK.
To add a reference in Visual C++
In Solution Explorer, select the project.
On the Project menu, click Add References.
Note In Visual C++ 2005, click References on the Project menu, and then click Add New Reference.
In the Add References dialog box, click the tab that corresponds with the category that you want to add a reference to.
Note In Visual C++ 2005, click the Browse tab in the Add References dialog box.
Click Browse, locate the component that you want on your local drive, and then click OK. The component is added to the Selected Components field.
Note In Visual C++ 2005, locate the component that you want on your local drive.
To add the selected reference to the current tab, click Add.
Note In Visual C++ 2005, click OK to close the dialog box and add the component in the References list box on the Properties Page dialog box of the project.
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