What I would recommend is scrapping the 'only update on clicks' idea, and just use binding and notifications for this (unless for some reason you think there will be so many Connect/Disconnect events it will slow your system). The simplest version of that would be a dependency property.
Provide an IObservableList<Port>
property as a dependency property on your ViewModel like this:
/// <summary>
/// Gets or sets...
/// </summary>
public IObservableList<Port> Ports
{
get { return (IObservableList<Port>)GetValue(PortsProperty); }
set { SetValue(PortsProperty, value); }
}
public static readonly DependencyProperty PortsProperty = DependencyProperty.Register("Ports", typeof(IObservableList<Port>), typeof(MyViewModelClass), new PropertyMetadata(new ObservableList<Port>));
Now you may add/remove items to/from that list whenever you connect or disconnect devices, just do not replace the list. This will force the list to send off a ListChangedEvent
for each action on the list, and the ComboBox (or any other bound UI) will react to those events.
This should be performant enough for you, as this will only cause the UI ComboBox to update whenever an event goes through.