I think something like this should work, although I don't do jQuery anymore, just vanilla Javascript. I'm sure you can figure out how to do it in jQuery.
this is your iframe code:
<ul id="titleee" >
<li><a href="http://adskpak.com/?type=2&id=jayvicious">Click me</a></li>
</ul>
<script>
window.addEventListener("message", function() {
if (event.origin === 'http://adskpak.com') {
if (event.data === 'click the link') {
document.querySelector('#titleee a').click();
}
}
});
</script>
now your main page code:
<iframe id="iframe" src="iframe1.php"></iframe>
<script>
var iframeWindow = document.querySelector('#iframe').contentWindow;
// this needs to happen after the load event,
// but it is best if it happens on a user's action.
window.onload = function() {
iframeWindow.postMessage('click the link', '*');
}
</script>
I've tested this code and it seems to work, although when I did the test I used google.com, which actually alerted me a cross domain error:
Load denied by X-Frame-Options: https://www.google.com/ does not permit cross-origin framing.
I am not sure if this is relevant for you, as it looks like your doing everything on your own domain, just a heads up.