SELECT *
, DateAdd(ss, rounded_second, round_down_seconds) As result
FROM (
SELECT *
, Round(nanoseconds / 1000.0, 0) As rounded_second
FROM (
SELECT the_date
, DatePart(ms, the_date) As nanoseconds
, DateAdd(ss, DateDiff(ss, 0, the_date), 0) As round_down_seconds
FROM (
SELECT '1900-01-01 00:10:10.830' As the_date
UNION ALL
SELECT '1900-01-01 00:10:10.430'
) As x
) As y
) As z
I've split out each step to be as clear as possible.
If you want a single liner:
SELECT the_date
, DateAdd(ss, Round(DatePart(ms, the_date) / 1000.0, 0), DateAdd(ss, DateDiff(ss, 0, the_date), 0)) As result
FROM (
SELECT '1900-01-01 00:10:10.830' As the_date
UNION ALL
SELECT '1900-01-01 00:10:10.430'
) As x