I am attempting to make a chat application on the .NET framework that will be able to communicate over the internet and not just LAN. I would like it to be P2P as to not require a central server. I don't mind which protocol it uses (UDP, TCP, etc) so long as I can send messages to almost any given IP.
All I would like to know is how to send data to another IP I know of, nothing else. I've searched around but the code is too complicated for me. (For example I've looked at the source code for torrent clients).
Help will be appreciated a lot thanks.
P.S.: I've heard about a method called UDP hole-punching if that sparks any plugs.