How can the JQuery.validator be used with rules that do ajax requests when jQuery 1.10 or greater is used. jQuery 1.10 doesn't support the async = false option anymore. Hence the jQuery.validator rule finishes before the ajax result in the success-callback arrives.
This old post (when asyn=false wasn't deprecated) suggests the us of that option: jQuery validator and a custom rule that uses AJAX
I am using the jQuery.validator in the context of a asp.net MVC 5.2 application