A quick way to preview the result of a applying a stash would be to create a topic branch:
git checkout -b teststash
After you apply the stash it would be trivial to either "accept" or "deny" the change.
To "deny" the change, simply remove the changes and go back to your previous branch:
git checkout . # or re-stash if you still want that patch
git checkout - # switch back to previous branch
To "accept" the change simply make a commit, switch back to your previous branch, and merge in your temp branch. It'll be a fast-forward merge so your history won't indicate that you had the preview branch at all (which you probably wouldn't care about later):
git add path/to/file.txt
git commit -m "re-apply fix foo"
git checkout -
git merge -
Or, if you want to "accept" the change but don't want to commit at that point, simply switch back to your original branch and keep on working:
git checkout -
So, in summary, there is not a built in "preview after I apply" Git command, but Git's light-weight branching makes this a pretty easy action.