In colloquial usage, "pass by reference" means that, if the callee modifies its arguments, it affects the caller, because the argument as seen by the callee refers to the value as seen by the caller.
The phrase is used independent of the actual programming language, and how it calls things (pointers, references, whatever).
In C++, call-by-reference can be done with references or pointers. In C, call-by-reference can only be achieved by passing a pointer.
"Call by value":
void foo( int x )
{
// x is a *copy* of whatever argument foo() was called with
x = 42;
}
int main()
{
int a = 0;
foo( a );
// at this point, a == 0
}
"Call by reference", C style:
void foo( int * x )
{
// x is still a *copy* of foo()'s argument, but that copy *refers* to
// the value as seen by the caller
*x = 42;
}
int main()
{
int a = 0;
foo( &a );
// at this point, a == 42
}
So, strictly speaking, there is no pass-by-reference in C. You either pass the variable by-value, or you pass a pointer to that variable by-value.