Such "standards" are simply not possible as there are too many factors which matter and the data and its setup in the database will always be different.
Given you are doing load testing you should have performance requirements from business level so check your project non-functional requirements for this information. If it is missing - the only thing you can do is measuring current performance, collecting the metrics and if you possess enough expertise - detecting "heavy" SQL queries and suggest improvements (build-in and 3rd-party tools can be used for this, i.e. explain query plan, sql query analyzer, precise i3)
With JMeter alone you will be able to create a database test plan and if you have some expected response times to use Duration Assertion to fail the samplers if response time exceeds defined threshold