The default styles for the built-in controls do look different depending on which Windows theme that is applied.
If you want to avoid this you could force your application to always use a specific theme by adding the corresponding theme's resource dictionary to your App.xaml file:
<Application x:Class="WpfApplication1.App" xmlns="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml/presentation"
xmlns:x="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml"
xmlns:local="clr-namespace:WpfApplication1"
StartupUri="MainWindow.xaml"
xmlns:d="http://schemas.microsoft.com/expression/blend/2008"
d1p1:Ignorable="d" xmlns:d1p1="http://schemas.openxmlformats.org/markup-compatibility/2006">
<Application.Resources>
<ResourceDictionary>
<ResourceDictionary.MergedDictionaries>
<ResourceDictionary Source="/PresentationFramework.Aero, Version=3.0.0.0,
Culture=neutral, PublicKeyToken=31bf3856ad364e35,
ProcessorArchitecture=MSIL;component/themes/aero.normalcolor.xaml" />
</ResourceDictionary.MergedDictionaries>
</ResourceDictionary>
</Application.Resources>
</Application>
Don't forget to add a reference to the corresponding assembly (Project->Add Reference->Assemblies->Framework in Visual Studio), for example PresentationFramework.Aero.dll if you decide to use the Aero theme.
Windows 7 theme for WPF?
How to Actually Change the System Theme in WPF: http://northhorizon.net/2010/how-to-actually-change-the-system-theme-in-wpf/