This is probably a common situation, but I couldn't find a specific answer on SO or Google.
I have a large table (>10 million rows) of friend relationships on a MySQL database that is very important and needs to be maintained such that there are no duplicate rows. The table stores the user's uids. The SQL for the table is:
CREATE TABLE possiblefriends(
id INT NOT NULL AUTO_INCREMENT,
PRIMARY KEY(id),
user INT,
possiblefriend INT)
The way the table works is that each user has around 1000 or so "possible friends" that are discovered and need to be stored, but duplicate "possible friends" need to be avoided.
The problem is, due to the design of the program, over the course of a day, I need to add 1 million rows or more to the table that may or not be duplicate row entries. The simple answer would seem to be to check each row to see if it is a duplicate, and if not, then insert it into the table. But this technique will probably get very slow as the table size increases to 100 million rows, 1 billion rows or higher (which I expect it to soon).
What is the best (i.e. fastest) way to maintain this unique table?
I don't need to have a table with only unique values always on hand. I just need it once-a-day for batch jobs. In this case, should I create a separate table that just inserts all the possible rows (containing duplicate rows and all), and then at the end of the day, create a second table that calculates all the unique rows in the first table?
If not, what is the best way for this table long-term?
(If indexes are the best long-term solution, please tell me which indexes to use)