I am designing a whatsapp like messenger application for the desktop using WPF and .Net. Now, when a user creates a group I want other members of the group to receive a notification that they were added to a group. My frontend is built in C#.Net, which is connected to a RESTful Webservice (Ruby on Rails). I am using Postgres for the database. I also have a Redis layer to cache my rails models.
I am considering the following options.
1) Use Postgres's inbuilt NOTIFY/LISTEN mechanism which the clients can subscribe to directly. I foresee two issues here i) Postgres might not be able to handle 10000's of clients subscribed directly. ii) There is no guarantee of delivery if the client is disconnected
2) Use Redis' Pub/Sub mechanism to which the clients can subscribe. I am still concerned with no guarantee of delivery here.
3) Use a messaging queue like RabbitMQ. The producer of this queue will be postgres which will push in messages through triggers. The consumer of-course will be the .Net clients.
So far, I am inclined to use the 3rd option.
Does anyone have any suggestions how to design this?