Here is one way you could roll your own for this. I am using the string splitter from Jeff Moden. You can find the original article here. http://www.sqlservercentral.com/articles/Tally+Table/72993/. If you don't like that splitter there are some other great versions here. https://sqlperformance.com/2012/07/t-sql-queries/split-strings. I like the one from Jeff Moden because unlike any of the other splitters you get the ItemNumber returned which in some cases is incredibly useful.
CREATE FUNCTION [dbo].[DelimitedSplit8K]
--===== Define I/O parameters
(@pString VARCHAR(8000), @pDelimiter CHAR(1))
--WARNING!!! DO NOT USE MAX DATA-TYPES HERE! IT WILL KILL PERFORMANCE!
RETURNS TABLE WITH SCHEMABINDING AS
RETURN
--===== "Inline" CTE Driven "Tally Table" produces values from 1 up to 10,000...
-- enough to cover VARCHAR(8000)
WITH E1(N) AS (
SELECT 1 UNION ALL SELECT 1 UNION ALL SELECT 1 UNION ALL
SELECT 1 UNION ALL SELECT 1 UNION ALL SELECT 1 UNION ALL
SELECT 1 UNION ALL SELECT 1 UNION ALL SELECT 1 UNION ALL SELECT 1
), --10E+1 or 10 rows
E2(N) AS (SELECT 1 FROM E1 a, E1 b), --10E+2 or 100 rows
E4(N) AS (SELECT 1 FROM E2 a, E2 b), --10E+4 or 10,000 rows max
cteTally(N) AS (--==== This provides the "base" CTE and limits the number of rows right up front
-- for both a performance gain and prevention of accidental "overruns"
SELECT TOP (ISNULL(DATALENGTH(@pString),0)) ROW_NUMBER() OVER (ORDER BY (SELECT NULL)) FROM E4
),
cteStart(N1) AS (--==== This returns N+1 (starting position of each "element" just once for each delimiter)
SELECT 1 UNION ALL
SELECT t.N+1 FROM cteTally t WHERE SUBSTRING(@pString,t.N,1) = @pDelimiter
),
cteLen(N1,L1) AS(--==== Return start and length (for use in substring)
SELECT s.N1,
ISNULL(NULLIF(CHARINDEX(@pDelimiter,@pString,s.N1),0)-s.N1,8000)
FROM cteStart s
)
--===== Do the actual split. The ISNULL/NULLIF combo handles the length for the final element when no delimiter is found.
SELECT ItemNumber = ROW_NUMBER() OVER(ORDER BY l.N1),
Item = SUBSTRING(@pString, l.N1, l.L1)
FROM cteLen l
;
The basic concept here is that you have to split your strings into words and then do a comparison. I used a couple of ctes so it is move obvious the process of how this works. The following works for all of the examples you posted.
declare @Phrase1 nvarchar(100) = 'Antoine de Saint-Exupéry'
, @Phrase2 nvarchar(100) = 'de Saint-Exupéry Antoine'
;
with Phrase1 as
(
select *
from DelimitedSplit8K(@Phrase1, ' ')
)
, Phrase2 as
(
select *
from DelimitedSplit8K(@Phrase2, ' ')
)
select PhrasesEqual = convert(bit, case when count(*) > 0 then 1 else 0 end)
from Phrase1 p1
full outer join Phrase2 p2 on p2.Item = p1.Item
where p1.Item is null
or p2.Item is null
;