Ok, the MRL you have provided us http://network.absoluteradio.co.uk/core/audio/wmp/live.asx?service=vr is a MMS server that may pull a ASX (XML) metafile which may contain at least one sub-item.
http://all-streaming-media.com/faq/streaming-media/Metafiles-ASX-Advanced-Stream-Redirector.htm
To be able to play this type of streaming media and go through each sub-item, you need to do the following code snippet:
VideoPanel.getMediaPlayer().setRepeat(true);
VideoPanel.getMediaPlayer().setPlaySubItems(true);
VideoPanel.getMediaPlayer().prepareMedia(media, options);
try {
Thread.sleep(2000);
} catch (InterruptedException e) {
e.printStackTrace();
}
for(String s: VideoPanel.getMediaPlayer().subItems()) System.out.println(s);
VideoPanel.getMediaPlayer().play();
For the example MRL above, it will list down all sub-items as follows:
http://wms.absoluteradio.co.uk/g1/absoluteradio.co.uk/prerolls/ar_account_1310455302_hi.wma
mms://wms.absoluteradio.co.uk/absoluteradio.co.uk/vr_lo?u=
http://wms.absoluteradio.co.uk/absoluteradio.co.uk/vr_lo?u=
mmsu://wms.absoluteradio.co.uk/absoluteradio.co.uk/vr_lo?u=
mmst://wms.absoluteradio.co.uk/absoluteradio.co.uk/vr_lo?u=
mms://wms.absoluteradio.co.uk/absoluteradio.co.uk/prerolls/problems_lo.wma
To stop playing all of them, set the following code snippet:
VideoPanel.getMediaPlayer().setRepeat(false);
VideoPanel.getMediaPlayer().setPlaySubItems(false);
VideoPanel.getMediaPlayer().stop();
For a better explanation, refer to: http://code.google.com/p/vlcj/wiki/HowToHandleYouTubeMedia