I have a rather messy situation that I can't seem to think of a way to resolve.
1 - I am maintaining a live site on a shared host, the hosting company has a limit of 250 emails/hour (or 250 smtp relays per hour). The site is a dating site so generates a lot of email, so the limit is being reached pretty regularly.
2 - I have a VPS from which I can sent unlimited emails.
I want to use 2 to send emails for 1. The obvious answer is to move the site to server 2, but this is not an option currently.
Both setups are php/mysql.
thanks in advance.