Dear Altar, I'm dazzled at how off the point you are in your guesses and how you don't listen to what people told you many times before.
Let's set some things straight. Memory management 101. Please read thoroughly.
When you allocate memory in Delphi, there are two memory managers involved.
System memory manager
First one is a system memory manager. This one is built into Windows and it gives memory in 4kb sized pages.
But it doesn't always give you memory in RAM (or physical memory). Your data can be kept on the hard drive, and read back every time you need to access it. This is awfully slow.
In other words, imagine you have 512Mb of physical memory. You run two programs, each requesting 1Gb of memory. What does OS do?
It grants both requests. Both apps get 1Gb of memory each. Both think all the memory is "in memory". But in fact, only 512Mb can be kept in RAM. The rest is stored in page file, although your app does not know that. It just works slow.
Working set size
Now, what is a "working set size" you are measuring?
It's the part of the allocated memory that is kept in RAM.
If you have an application which allocates 1Gb of memory, and you only have 512 Mb of RAM, then it's working set size will be 512Mb. Although it "uses" 1Gb of memory!
When you run another application which needs memory, OS will automatically free some RAM by moving rarely used blocks of "memory" to the hard drive.
Your virtual memory allocation will stay the same, but more pages will be on the hard drive and less in RAM. Working set size will decrease.
From this, you should have understood by this point, that it's pointless to try and minimize the working set size. You're achieving nothing. You're not freeing memory in any sense. You're just offloading the data to the hard drive.
But the system will do that automatically when it needs to. And there's no point making room in RAM until it's needed. You're just slowing down your application, that's all.
TLDR: "Working set size" is not "how much memory application uses". It's "how much is ready right now". Don't try to minimize it, you're just making things worse.
Delphi memory manager
OS gives you virtual memory in pages of 4Kb. But often you need it in much smaller chunks. For instance, 4 bytes for your integer, or 32 bytes for some structure. The solution?
Application memory manager, such as FastMM or BorlandMM or others.
It's job is to allocate memory in pages from the operating system, then give you small chunks of those pages when you need it.
In other words, when you ask for 14 bytes of memory, this is what happens:
- You ask FastMM for 14 bytes of memory.
- FastMM asks OS for 1 page of memory (4096 bytes).
- OS grants one page of memory, backing it up with RAM (it's stored in actual RAM).
- FastMM saves that page, cuts 14 bytes of it and gives to you.
When you ask for another 14 bytes, FastMM just cuts another 14 bytes from the same page.
What happens when you release memory? The same thing backwards:
- You release 14 bytes to FastMM. Nothing happens.
- You release another 14 bytes. FastMM sees that the 4096 byte page it allocated is now completely unused.
- Therefore it releases the page, returning it to the system.
It's worth noting that FastMM cannot release just 14 bytes to the system. It has to release memory in pages. Until the whole page is free, FastMM cannot do a thing. Nobody can.
So, why is my working set size so big, even though I released everything?
First, your working set size is not what you should be measuring. Virtual memory consumption is. But if you have big working set size, your virtual memory consumption will be high too.
What's the problem? You should be able to figure out by this point.
Let's say you allocate 1kb, then 3kb of memory. How much virtual memory have you allocated? 4kb, 1 page.
Now you release 3Kb. How much virtual memory do you use now? 1Kb? No, it's still 1 page. You cannot allocate less than 1 page from the system. You're still using 4096 bytes of virtual memory.
Imagine if you do that 1000 times. 1kb, 3kb, 1kb, 3kb, 1kb, 3kb and so on. You allocate 1000 * 4kb = 4 mb like that, and then you release all the 3kb parts. How much virtual memory do you use now?
Still 4 mb. Because you allocated 1000 pages at first. Of every page you took 1kb and 3kb chunks. Even if you release 3kb chunks, 1kb chunks will continue to keep every single page you allocated in memory. And every page takes 4kb of virtual memory.
Memory manager cannot magically "move" all of your 1kb chunks together. This is impossible, because their virtual addresses can be referenced from somewhere in code. It's not a trait of FastMM.
But why with BorlandMM everything works better?
Coincidence. Maybe it just so happens that BorlandMM gives you memory in a slightly different way than FastMM does. Next thing you know, you change something in your app and BorlandMM acts just like FastMM did. It's impossible for a memory manager to completely prevent this effect, called memory fragmentation.
So what do I do?
Short answer is, not much until this bothers you.
You see, with modern operating systems, you're not really eating anyone's RAM. Per above, OS will automatically swap your pages out when it needs RAM for other applications. This should not be a concern.
And the "excessive" memory isn't lost. Although pages are allocated, 3kb of each is marked as "free". Next time your app needs memory, memory manager will use that space.
But if you really want to help it, you should reorganize your allocations so that the ones you're planning on keeping are done first, and the ones you will soon release are all allocated after that.
Like this: 1kb, 1kb, 1kb, ..., 3kb, 3kb, 3kb...
If you now release all the 3kb chunks, your virtual memory consumption will drop significantly.
This is not always possible. If it's impossible, then just do nothing. It's more or less alright like it is.
And P.S.
You shouldn't be allocating 500 forms in the first place. This is clearly not a way to go. Fix this, and you won't even have a need to think about memory allocation and releasing.
I hope this clears things up, because four posts on the same topic, frankly, is a bit too much.