Listed here on the mysqli documentation site, one of the comments says
You should always use mysqli_kill() function before mysqli_close() to actually close and free up the tcp socket being used by PHP. Garbage collection after script execution nor mysqli_close() do not kill the tcp socket on their own. The socket would otherwise remain in 'wait' state for approximately 30 seconds, and any additional page loads/connection attempts would only add to the total number of open tcp connections. This wait time does not appear to be configurable via PHP settings.
Also as of this version, mysqli created links cannot be "deactivated", and will continue to accumulate in process memory until the PHP server or process is restarted, essentially making mysqli.max_links = -1 required.
Could someone explain what this means, and if mysqli.max_links should be set, how so, and if i should be using mysqli_kill();