I now understood, how the calculation of "Load" works. Here is a I think more simpler example than on the apache documents page.
Let's say we have 3 worker and a configured load factor of 1.
1) Start
a | b | c
--+---+---
0 | 0 | 0
add the load factor of 1 to all workers
a | b | c
--+---+---
1 | 1 | 1
now select the one with highest value --> a and decrease by the sum of the factor of all (=3) - this is the selected worker
a | b | c
---+---+---
-2 | 1 | 1
2) next round, add again 1 to all
a | b | c
---+---+---
-1 | 2 | 2
now select the one with highest value --> b and decrease by the sum of the factor of all (=3) - this is the selected worker
a | b | c
---+----+----
-1 | -1 | 2
3) next round, add again 1
a | b | c
---+----+----
0 | 0 | 3
now select the one with highest value --> c and decrease by the sum of the factor of all (=3) - this is the selected worker
a | b | c
---+----+----
0 | 0 | 0
startover again :)
I hope this helps others.