This here is better than a SSIS packages since you can use a trigger to detect your row changes, and even the values.
Try my example you can just C/P into management studio. When you update on Sample_Table you will have changes rows and which column in your table.
So what you can do is. Keep your lookup logic in SSIS (if you want something in SSIS) - Updated the Table based on matches in lookup
When these updates happend your trigger will be fired and update the rows that have changed.
Alternative you can create your lookup in a t-sql script and do an ordinary update when custid=custid instead its just as easy. But thats up to you.
EDITED
-- -------------------- Setup tables and some initial data --------------------
CREATE TABLE dbo.Sample_Table (ContactID int, Forename varchar(100), Surname varchar(100), Extn varchar(16), Email varchar(100), Age int );
INSERT INTO Sample_Table VALUES (1,'Bob','Smith','2295','bs@example.com',24);
INSERT INTO Sample_Table VALUES (2,'Alice','Brown','2255','ab@example.com',32);
INSERT INTO Sample_Table VALUES (3,'Reg','Jones','2280','rj@example.com',19);
INSERT INTO Sample_Table VALUES (4,'Mary','Doe','2216','md@example.com',28);
INSERT INTO Sample_Table VALUES (5,'Peter','Nash','2214','pn@example.com',25);
CREATE TABLE dbo.Sample_Table_Changes (ContactID int, FieldName sysname, FieldValueWas sql_variant, FieldValueIs sql_variant, modified datetime default (GETDATE()));
GO
-- -------------------- Create trigger --------------------
CREATE TRIGGER TriggerName ON dbo.Sample_Table FOR DELETE, INSERT, UPDATE AS
BEGIN
SET NOCOUNT ON;
--Unpivot deleted
WITH deleted_unpvt AS (
SELECT ContactID, FieldName, FieldValue
FROM
(SELECT ContactID
, cast(Forename as sql_variant) Forename
, cast(Surname as sql_variant) Surname
, cast(Extn as sql_variant) Extn
, cast(Email as sql_variant) Email
, cast(Age as sql_variant) Age
FROM deleted) p
UNPIVOT
(FieldValue FOR FieldName IN
(Forename, Surname, Extn, Email, Age)
) AS deleted_unpvt
),
--Unpivot inserted
inserted_unpvt AS (
SELECT ContactID, FieldName, FieldValue
FROM
(SELECT ContactID
, cast(Forename as sql_variant) Forename
, cast(Surname as sql_variant) Surname
, cast(Extn as sql_variant) Extn
, cast(Email as sql_variant) Email
, cast(Age as sql_variant) Age
FROM inserted) p
UNPIVOT
(FieldValue FOR FieldName IN
(Forename, Surname, Extn, Email, Age)
) AS inserted_unpvt
)
--Join them together and show what's changed
INSERT INTO Sample_Table_Changes (ContactID, FieldName, FieldValueWas, FieldValueIs)
SELECT Coalesce (D.ContactID, I.ContactID) ContactID
, Coalesce (D.FieldName, I.FieldName) FieldName
, D.FieldValue as FieldValueWas
, I.FieldValue AS FieldValueIs
FROM
deleted_unpvt d
FULL OUTER JOIN
inserted_unpvt i
on D.ContactID = I.ContactID
AND D.FieldName = I.FieldName
WHERE
D.FieldValue <> I.FieldValue --Changes
OR (D.FieldValue IS NOT NULL AND I.FieldValue IS NULL) -- Deletions
OR (D.FieldValue IS NULL AND I.FieldValue IS NOT NULL) -- Insertions
END
GO
-- -------------------- Try some changes --------------------
UPDATE Sample_Table SET age = age+1;
/*UPDATE Sample_Table SET Extn = '5'+Extn where Extn Like '221_';
DELETE FROM Sample_Table WHERE ContactID = 3;
INSERT INTO Sample_Table VALUES (6,'Stephen','Turner','2299','st@example.com',25);
UPDATE Sample_Table SET ContactID = 7 where ContactID = 4; --this will be shown as a delete and an insert
-- -------------------- See the results --------------------
SELECT *, SQL_VARIANT_PROPERTY(FieldValueWas, 'BaseType') FieldBaseType, SQL_VARIANT_PROPERTY(FieldValueWas, 'MaxLength') FieldMaxLength from Sample_Table_Changes;
-- -------------------- Cleanup --------------------
DROP TABLE dbo.Sample_Table; DROP TABLE dbo.Sample_Table_Changes;*/
select * from dbo.sample_table_changes