You can use
LOCK TABLE table IN ACCESS EXCLUSIVE MODE;
when you are ready to read from your table. "SELECT" and all other operations will be queued until the end of the transaction (commit changes or rollback).
Note that this will lock the entire table and referring to PostgreSQL there is no table level lock that can lock exclusively a specific row.
So you can use
FOR UPDATE
row level lock in all your SELECT that will update your row and this will prevent all those SELECT that will update a row from reading your row !
PostgreSQL Documentation :
FOR UPDATE causes the rows retrieved by the SELECT statement to be locked as though for update. This prevents them from being locked, modified or deleted by other transactions until the current transaction ends. That is, other transactions that attempt UPDATE, DELETE, SELECT FOR UPDATE, SELECT FOR NO KEY UPDATE, SELECT FOR SHARE or SELECT FOR KEY SHARE of these rows will be blocked until the current transaction ends; conversely, SELECT FOR UPDATE will wait for a concurrent transaction that has run any of those commands on the same row, and will then lock and return the updated row (or no row, if the row was deleted). Within a REPEATABLE READ or SERIALIZABLE transaction, however, an error will be thrown if a row to be locked has changed since the transaction started. For further discussion see Section 13.4.
The FOR UPDATE lock mode is also acquired by any DELETE on a row, and also by an UPDATE that modifies the values on certain columns. Currently, the set of columns considered for the UPDATE case are those that have a unique index on them that can be used in a foreign key (so partial indexes and expressional indexes are not considered), but this may change in the future.*