Consider the following:
Adjacency List Model:
DROP TABLE IF EXISTS my_table;
CREATE TABLE my_table
(member_id INT NOT NULL PRIMARY KEY
,parent INT NULL
);
INSERT INTO my_table VALUES
(234,NULL),
(182,234),
(935,182),
(330,234),
(743,182),
(382,743),
(169,935),
(435,935),
(809,330),
(477,330),
(196,743),
(917,382);
SELECT y.member_id parent
, z.member_id granparent
FROM my_table x
LEFT
JOIN my_table y
ON y.member_id = x.parent
LEFT
JOIN my_table z
ON z.member_id = y.parent
WHERE x.member_id = 743;
+--------+-------------+
| parent | grandparent |
+--------+-------------+
| 182 | 234 |
+--------+-------------+
...or Nested Set Model:
DROP TABLE IF EXISTS my_nested_set;
CREATE TABLE my_nested_set
(member_id INT NOT NULL PRIMARY KEY
, lft INT NOT NULL
, rgt INT NOT NULL
);
INSERT INTO my_nested_set VALUES
(234 , 1, 24),
(182 , 2, 17),
(935 , 3, 8),
(435 , 4, 5),
(169 , 6, 7),
(743 , 9, 16),
(382 , 10, 13),
(917 , 11, 12),
(196 , 14, 15),
(330 , 18, 23),
(809 , 19, 20),
(477 , 21, 22);
SELECT x.member_id
FROM my_nested_set x
JOIN my_nested_set y
ON y.lft > x.lft
AND y.lft < x.rgt
WHERE y.member_id = 743;
+-----------+
| member_id |
+-----------+
| 182 |
| 234 |
+-----------+