Really simple. In your view, have a link/button like so. Important bit being :remote => true
<%= link_to 'Update Thingy', update_thingy_path, :confirm => 'You sure you wanna update?', :remote => true %>
or
<%= button_to('Update Thingy', {:action => 'update_thingy', :thingyid => 314}, :method => :get, :remote => true) %>
Obviously, you have to get update_thingy_path to resolve to some action as normal. The difference is when you render you are going to be rendering some *.js.erb instead of *.html.erb. In that update_thingy.js.erb, you just put whatever javascript you want to run in the client. You might wanna notify the user that the update happened for example (in jQuery):
$('#notice').html("Thingy was update.")
Or if whatever javascript you're returning is really simple, in the controller you can do something like the following instead of having a whole js.erb for a one-liner.
render :js => "alert('Blah')"