You are asking to have it both ways. You either need to inject the dependency or invert control and let another object manager the interaction between Aggregate and EventDispatcher. I recommend keeping your Aggregates as simple as possible so that they are free of dependencies and remain testable as well.
The following code sample is very simple and would not be what you put into production, but illustrates how to design Aggregates free of dependencies without passing around a list of events outside of a context that needs them.
If your Aggregate has a list of events within it:
class MyAggregate
{
private List<IEvent> events = new List<IEvent>();
// ... Constructor and event sourcing?
public IEnumerable<IEvent> Events => events;
public string Name { get; private set; }
public void ChangeName(string name)
{
if (Name != name)
{
events.Add(new NameChanged(name);
}
}
}
Then you might have a handler that looks like:
public class MyHandler
{
private Repository repository;
// ... Constructor and dependency injection
public void Handle(object id, ChangeName cmd)
{
var agg = repository.Load(id);
agg.ChangeName(cmd.Name);
repository.Save(agg);
}
}
And a repository that looks like:
class Repository
{
private EventDispatcher dispatcher;
// ... Constructor and dependency injection
public void Save(MyAggregate agg)
{
foreach (var e in agg.Events)
{
dispatcher.Dispatch(e);
}
}
}