For future reference, I found it's possible to do this in combination with the typeWatch plugin (http://archive.plugins.jquery.com/project/TypeWatch).
Basically what you want to do is (in my case for a slug):
/*Disable keyup validation on focus and restore it to onkeyup validation mode on blur*/
$("form input[data-val-remote-url]").on({
focus: function () {
$(this).closest('form').validate().settings.onkeyup = false;
},
blur: function () {
$(this).closest('form').validate().settings.onkeyup = $.validator.defaults.onkeyup;
}
});
$(function () {
/*Setup the typeWatch for the element/s that's using remote validation*/
$("#Slug").typeWatch({ wait: 300, callback: validateSlug, captureLength: 5 });
});
function validateSlug() {
/*Manually force revalidation of the element (forces the remote validation to happen) */
var slug = $("#Slug");
slug.closest('form').validate().element(slug);
}
If you're using the vanilla typeWatch plugin, you'll have to setup a typeWatch for every element because the typeWatch callback doesn't give you access to the current element via $(this), it only passes the value.
Alternatively you can modify the typeWatch plugin to pass in the element (timer.el) and then you can apply a delay to all.