This is not possible if you are using facebook's iframe auto-resize features. Once the iframe is resized so that scrolling is not necessary, the only scroll available will be the one of the parent window. However, the child iframe has no information about the scroll of the parent window (since they are not on the same domain...) and trying to listen to scroll events or scroll position will only return that the scrollbar is at position 0, or topmost.
You can however listen to click events and extract the offset of the click event or the clicked element.
Some examples:
$('.clickme').click(function(e) {
e.preventDefault();
var top;
// Using click position (e.pageY and e.pageX available)
top = e.pageY;
// Using clicked element position
top = $(this).offset().top;
$('#moveme').css({'top': top - 100 + 'px'}); //
}
Maybe you can base your interaction on this principle instead?