For a program I am writing, I would like to use TLS (or something similar) to encapsulate my application's protocol. This will minimize both the amount of work I have to do as well as the number of vulnerabilities I could accidentally create.
My program is designed to be peer-to-peer although one or more servers provide some services to help one user locate another (it registers IP address/port combos) but do little else. I want to make this system very fault-tolerant so having these servers act as a Certificate Authority is unacceptable because a compromise of a server or its key would affect too many users. Therefore I plan on using a Web of Trust.
The main problem with using TLS is that the original TLS 1.2 specification (RFC 5246) does not provide for using OpenPGP certificates. It seems to be very x.509 centric. RFC 6091, which obsoletes RFC 5081 and extends RFC 5246, makes provisions for an extension to TLS that does what I want. The problem is that I don't think BouncyCastle implements this extension and I can't find a Java crypto library that does. I also don't want to write my own / contribute to BC because I'm really bad at not making mistakes and I'm also very lazy.
Another problem with this is that BouncyCastle provides "a light weight client-side TLS API" but because this software is P2P, a server-side API is also necessary so that I can use TLS by making it believe that the peer originating the connection is the client. I'm pretty sure that once the handshake is complete that it's the same.
Questions: Is there any way that I can still use TLS (which I highly doubt)? Is there a protocol like TLS that is designed for P2P, or at least can function in this way (like I believe TLS can), but can work with an OpenPGP certificate? If neither is the case, should I pursue the idea explained in this question and implement my own layer taking concepts from TLS?