However, what I have not found is WHEN you would add a Public Sub
New() constructor to a form and what you would add to that versus the
Load() sub.
Here is an example to answer (the core?) question of yours. Suppose you have a Form to edit a product. Let's call it ProductEditForm. Your use case for this Form is to edit the values of an existing Product in your system. How would you tell this form what product to edit? By requiring the passing of a Product object when you instantiate the form. For example, in the code page of ProductEditForm:
Private _product As Product = Nothing
Public Sub New(ByVal p As Product)
' This call is required by the Windows Form Designer.
InitializeComponent()
' Add any initialization after the InitializeComponent() call.
_product = p
' Now, you can reference the values of passed-in product "p" via variable _product, anywhere in this Form.
End Sub
And you would instantiate ProductEditForm like this:
Dim p As New Product
p.ID = 1234
p.Name = "Widget"
p.Cost = "10.00"
p.SalePrice = "30.00"
Dim f As New ProductEditForm(p)
In this example, you are making good use of code in Sub New(). You could also, perhaps, assign the values to _product to TextBox controls, check values in _product to set colors or fonts, etc.
(Side note: this method of requiring a target object in the constructor completely avoids the way-too-common bad habit of some WinForms programmers to pass data between Forms via public form properties or global variables.)