Your first problem is getting values out of dtDBInfo
. You didn't create a minimal reproducible example but I'm going to assume it's a DataTable based on the name.
The object contained in that column is already a DateTime (unless youre storing dates as strings, which is a bad idea). There's no need to convert it. You can use generics to actually treat it as a DateTime. Change your code to this:
command.Parameters.Add("startup_time", dtDBInfo.Rows[0].Field<DateTime>("STARTUP_TIME"));
Your next problem is going to be that your arguments to your Add method are incorrect. Add doesn't take the object value in. It takes info about the type of parameter, and returns you an OracleParameter that you can then set the value of. Do this:
command.Parameters.Add("startup_time", OracleType.DateTime).Value = dtDBInfo.Rows[0].Field<DateTime>("STARTUP_TIME");
You may be able to get away with eliminating specifying the type of the DateTime altogether. I don't have an Oracle database to test with, but you can try this:
command.Parameters.Add("startup_time", OracleType.DateTime).Value = dtDBInfo.Rows[0]["STARTUP_TIME"];