If anyone is still looking, Here's how I did it.
This is an extension method for the DBContext that takes a type and returns physical column names and their properties.
This utilizes object context to get physical columns list, then uses the "PreferredName" metadata property to map each column it its property.
Since it uses object context, it initiates a database connection, so the first run will be slow depending on the complexity of the context.
public static IDictionary<String, PropertyInfo> GetTableColumns(this DbContext ctx, Type entityType)
{
ObjectContext octx = (ctx as IObjectContextAdapter).ObjectContext;
EntityType storageEntityType = octx.MetadataWorkspace.GetItems(DataSpace.SSpace)
.Where(x => x.BuiltInTypeKind == BuiltInTypeKind.EntityType).OfType<EntityType>()
.Single(x => x.Name == entityType.Name);
var columnNames = storageEntityType.Properties.ToDictionary(x => x.Name,
y => y.MetadataProperties.FirstOrDefault(x => x.Name == "PreferredName")?.Value as string ?? y.Name);
return storageEntityType.Properties.Select((elm, index) =>
new {elm.Name, Property = entityType.GetProperty(columnNames[elm.Name])})
.ToDictionary(x => x.Name, x => x.Property);
}
To use it, just create a helper static class, and add above function; then it's as simple as calling
var tabCols = context.GetTableColumns(typeof(EntityType));